Owie! Owie!

James has learned to say "Owie" this week to indicate that something hurts. While all advances in communication should be applauded, the timing here is a bit unfortunate: he is also suffering from several molars poking their way through his gums this week, which has given him ample opportunity to employ his new vocabulary. He has had a difficult time falling asleep and staying asleep, which of course means he's also exhausted and much less tolerant of the discomfort. Today while strolling him around the house before his nap, he appeared sound asleep and I thought I'd walk a few more minutes before moving him to his crib. With his eyes still closed, he reached up, removed his pacifier, and muttered "Owie, owie, owie..." in a small, pathetic voice. I rubbed his soft head and replied, "I'm sorry, sweetie." Later in the afternoon, as he screamed at full volume with fresh tears streaming down his cheeks, I held and soothed him. We had maxed out on ibuprofen and orajel, so this palliative was the best I could offer. In this moment of heart-melting sympathy for my boy, I became suddenly relieved, almost happy: I knew that, despite the awful pain of teeth poking through soft flesh, it would pass. James would be OK, would go on to chew all sorts of tasty and exciting things with these new teeth, and was otherwise fit and happy. Parenting can bring moments of gratitude in the oddest moments.

Amidst this teething drama, one of James' most favorite people in the world came over for the afternoon: Iris. She will turn one in April and is the daughter of our friends Ann and Ben. James loves her, adores her. He sees Iris every day at school (Ann teaches at P.S. 1 as well), and he knows it -- as we pull up in front of the school, each day without fail, he says, "IRIS, IRIS!" It is something to see the two of them interact: despite the books telling me that children don't develop compassion for several more months, if not years, James seems genuinely caring of her: he tries to feed her, hands her toys, and lets her maul him with her eight-month-old version of affection. Ben tells us that sometimes in the afternoon when Iris is fussy, James will seek out her bottle and bring it to her.